To Whom it May Concern

To whom it may concern,

Don’t allow just anyone into your space. Not everyone is worthy of it. Their mouth may say one thing while the intentions of that person is and can be totally opposite. There is a species of males to be aware of called “fuck boys”. They like to pretend to be one thing and turn out to be completely another. They start off charming, then they might have an incident where they turn sour. It may happen so quickly that you don’t even notice it because your head is so far into the clouds. But then there are more instances of when his fuck boyness shows and you start to question him.You don't ask him about his behavior and actions but yourself. You begin to ask your friends if this is normal behavior to expect from a man? A fuck boy may appear to be a man but he isn’t. He comes dressed dapper with swag and an impeccable speech but be aware. Be aware of the men you let into your space because they can mess up your energy. Bad people bring bad energy and you might not notice that until things have gotten too far or its too late. Never be ashamed to ask questions like “Where is this going?” or “What are we?” because those are important questions and those are things that need to be known before going to the next step with a person. Never give up who you are to please someone else. You are unique and special.  It may seem as though I’m rambling,which I am but it’s just that its so important for you to know these things. There are fuck girls out here and my young kings you need to be aware of them. They try to use you and drain you but you should notice their fuckness behavior before you get into too deep and lawd forbid you have a baby by them. Geesh… Always be upfront with who you are and no one can ever second guess your motives. Give yourself to a person because you see them for more then just a fun time and a nut. Sex without love is just excerise and at this age I should be JLo ripped. Never think that what you hear about a man isn’t facts on his behavior, just because you haven’t seen it yet doesn’t mean it won’t happen. No matter how good the sex is or the potential you see in a person take their ass for the face value that they are showing you and then you will never be hurt by their actions or think twice about cutting them off. But also be aware of your behavior and actions, plus the energy that you are giving to those in your space. I'm not perfect I have made mistakes. When I do I take responsibility for my actions and consequences from the mistakes I have made (even though I try to talk my way out of it )because as an adult woman I have no choice but to pick up the peices, reasse the situation without clouded vision and move the fuck on. There is nothing worst then being a man or woman who don’t know when to move on. Not to say don’t show no emotion as though that person didn’t mean anything to you just not on social media or on that person's voicemail inbox. Take a day or a weekend and dust yourself off, pick yourself up and keep it the fuck pushing. As Queen Bey says ”The best revenge is your paper.” It takes alot out of you to not want to demonstrate acts of violence. Like slash his tires, scratch up his car and bust out his windows BUT those things will get you killed or locked up. And with that he/she wins. Never let them know they got the best of you by exhibiting signs of hurt emotions. That’s giving them too much of your power. That’s giving them too much of your energy. Take what they was to you and then throw it into the trash. It’s easier said then done but that doesn’t make it impossible for it to happen. It’s always the sunniest after a bad storm. And during that storm don’t beat yourself up. If you feel you are at fault, own up and make sure to never make those same mistakes again. If the other party is at fault well then take it as a learning lesson and keep it thee fuck pushing. One monkey don’t stop no show. No matter how good he look, what he has or how good the sex is. Don't settle, watch the signs and juke the fuck boys.

Stay blessed.